[I was like, adulting 101 but do I sound like an adult to yall lol]
Too many cooks spoil the broth.
“Joint savings-” SCAM. that’s all I’ll say.
You are single until there’s a prenuptial on your table. Not a ring. Not until he decides it’s exclusive. Not until you meet his mom. Not until you’ve written your vows- until there’s a prenuptial on your table. You. Are. Single. He is on . Rotation
Human beings are animals before they are people. Read that again.
What you don’t know you either fear or worship.
What you don’t pay for in currency you pay for in your time & attention and that’s ultimately more expensive. Money you can get back. Time gone is gone.
Anything that depreciates in value is a liability. The opposite is also true.
Anyone in your life that is not actively working to level up or better themselves is a liability. Crab mentality is a thing.
Experiences >> possessions. In fact experiences are all that life is about.
A job that steals you from your life is a problem. Whatever the pay is. You’d rather have a low paying job that’s only 8 hours a day over a nine figure that’s 13 hours a day.your job is supposed to facilitate your life, not steal it.
The grass is greener exactly where it’s watered
What does not work for you you work for. What you do not control controls you.
Jack of all trades is a master of none but better than a master of one.
Many ways lead to Rome. There is more than one way to kill a rat.
There is no such thing as free thinking choose your influences carefully.
If it separates the wheat from the chaff let it be
Time you’ve enjoyed wasting is still time wasted
Competition is imaginary babe its you against you. Always. It’s you you need to look out for
You can love a monster, it can even love you back & protect you from the other monsters- that doesn’t change the fact that it’s a monster. You do not lie with dogs and complain of fleas.
Neutrality is a lie either its for you or against you.
The girls that get it, get it. The girls that don’t, find out.
mentally — journal: do a brain dump · meditate · remove toxic people and triggering things from your life · recite self love affirmations · think happy thoughts · if negative thoughts come, it’s okay, that’s inevitable.. let them be but don’t let them stay · take walks to clear your mind (watch your surroundings-be careful) · block, unfollow, and mute accounts online that make you feel bad about yourself · disconnect from the world - social media - the news etc often in order to make peace your priority, reset and recharge
emotionally — allow yourself to feel whatever it is that you’re feeling : cry - scream -laugh - smile .. let it out · process your feelings, the good and bad ones · try to understand them and try to work your way through them · journal daily · tell people how you feel and how they make you feel because keeping things like this bottled up isn’t good · be kind to yourself · be patient with yourself · know that your feelings are always valid and no one can ever tell you how to feel about something
physically — exercise · try yoga/pilates · drink enough water every day · try to eat breakfast lunch and dinner daily · brush your teeth in the morning and before bed · wash and deep condition your hair · don’t skip your skin care routine · get mani/pedis · practice good hygiene/shower regularly · moisturize your skin · get facials · get enough sleep · use sunscreen
